Fiona Bell, Social Worker in Schools
Family Violence (Recap of previous session)
Latest statistics: Roughly every second call out for the police is for family violence.
Cycle of Violence
Leaving - reasons for not leaving
- Fatigue
- Finance
- Father
- Fear (most at risk when they first leave, have a baby, start a new relationship)
- False hope
- Faith
- Waiting for children to reach a certain age
Impact on children
- Smaller brains, cortisol hormone levels are heightened
Children Young Persons and Their Families Act 1989
http://www.legislation.govt.nz/act/public/1989/0024/latest/DLM147088.html
Family Violence Act 1995
http://www.legislation.govt.nz/act/public/1995/0086/latest/DLM371926.html
Care of Children Act 2004
http://legislation.govt.nz/act/public/2004/0090/latest/DLM317233.html
Vulnerable Children Act 2014
http://www.legislation.govt.nz/act/public/2014/0040/latest/whole.html
Final Thoughts and Ideas
- Triggers
- Often sensory
- music,
- sounds,
- touch,
- temperature,
- smell
- social can take you to an emotional place
- Language
- Angry kid can't blow bubbles - give them a bubble blower to use
- Meet the kids where they are emotionally before talking about choice.
- i.e. deal with the anger first, give them the chance to be heard

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